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                                    Who is his father-the breeder or the former lover of  his mother? He wants to know the fact. Weather the lover committed sexual  intercourse with her before marriage or her husband is the father of her baby?  Secretly she wants to know it.  Whose  sperm is growing in the abdomen of wife? Weather it is mine or her father’s, it  is the doubt of a husband.   
After establishing Rajiv Gandhi center for bio-technology  at Thiruvanandapuram, these sorts of above mentioned cases are flowing to  there. Such cases point to the breach of belief and confidence spreading in  modern families.  When the dispute  arrived in couples in the matter of paternity of their children, they had to go  to Hyderabad  for ‘Litmus test’ and ‘DNA test’.  But  today, this facility is also available in Thiruvandram.  It is very helpful in finding criminals in  the cases of rape.  If some one is ready  to spend 30,000 rupees, it is very easy to find out the real father of the baby  by testing the blood of baby, mother and the accused.  If the ‘DNA mark’ of the accused is found in  the baby, then he is the father that baby.   
 If some one  calls other ‘the Father less’, then the heard will be got to the anger (No one  calls other ‘the mother less’).  Having a  good father is being considered for centuries as a symbol of noble descent. No  husband can adjust with his wife, when he makes out that her belly bears an  illegitimate child.  It is the refusal of  his maleness.  On the basis of this  secret nature of paternity many works have been woven very dramatically.  Paternity is inclined to think as a result of  some mental illnesses like suspicions.   These increasing suspicions point out to the breach of belief in Kerala  families.   
‘Paternity tests’ are helpful to a great extend to  rescue families from destructions convincing the reality of adultery in the  cases of rape and improper relationships.   But hundreds of cases directed to Rajiv Gandhi centre for bio-technology  are like glass-panes which case to reflect the disruptions of a diseased  society.  Cases reach here are almost  suggested by police, family courts and woman commission.  Unknown incidents in addition to these are  more.   
Why does this type of incidents occur? Studies  indicate that sexual relationships are increasing among bachelors and unmarried  couples. When the interchanging capitalist culture prevails among couples, the  western culture allows man and woman live together without marriage and free  friendship and female trades become some tendencies spreading in a diseased  society like epidemics; how will the staunch bond of families exist for long  here?  
                                    We haven’t heard yet the news about women who  support the whoredom of their husbands and about husbands who share the  virginity of their wives with friends.   But today, we have to consent some realities that the couples separated  before the completion of honeymoon and the females faced sexual assualts from  their own houses itself and so on. Without releasing the masks of fake morality,  our families cannot escape from the breach of mutual belief.  Most of the times, we are unable to respond  realizing the role of mass media in making family atmosphere very turbid and  dark.  Above all, we don’t understand  that the wheels of family move forward in the conductivity of love and mutual belief. | 
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