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                                    Marriage is a social agreement which lets a man and  a woman live together. When one commits sexual relationship beside conjugal  relationship, it would be come under prostitution. A woman, who hires out for  an instantaneous sexual intercourse, is called a prostitute as one, who cohabits  with a man for a longtime without being married, is called a concubine. In a  nut shell, when one country allows such a relation, then it means that this  country gives permission for prostitution.   A Judgment, announced recently by Alahabad high court, questions this  sacred institution of the society.  This  judgment was announced by Division bunch in the basis of considering the appeal  of Payalsharma, a woman from Uttar Prathesh. The court justified this action  interpreting morality and law as two different concepts.  Not only this but also court suggested to  provide police protection to her as for rising the threat from some corners.  
                                      It says us how we get change as an open society  imitating western countries.  Even the homosexuals  have also got legal support to lead a wicked life there.  This life among homosexuals is described as  ‘friendship marriage’. Some judges have lost their profession for supporting  this relationship.   
                                      Marriage is the basement of the family, a social  institution.  It is a long term  deal.  Each and every men and women, who  take part in this deal, have some duties and responsibilities.  When those rules are disregarded, the society  has a responsibility to correct and put it to right channels. In addition to  the rules and regulations of the religion, the civil laws also give a social  concern for marriage.  Even in civil laws,  the witness is compulsory for marriage.   But according to Hindu Gandarwa mythology, it is not needed.  Such type of marriages, which might be  performed either in front of a Hindu idle or by adorning a garland, has the  strength of mutual trust only.  It might  be broken at any moment  
                                      The sexual relationship isn’t a main intention  behind the marital life. But, it is only an attractive factor in it.  God itself has created man and woman as  couples.  The sex appeal in both is for  exchanging each other. For, it is basement of the generation. Hence, that to be  bachelor in life is strongly criticized. Verily, the entertainment, obtaining  from sexual relationship, is one of the extreme joys of life. The marriage is a  legal permission which allows them to follow this joy.  But this must be under control.  Otherwise, our life might be equal for a wild  life.   
                                      In a systematic married life, some values beyond  sexual relationship are preferred.  The  love among the couples is the prominent part of their relation. This affection  long lasts into their children and the children’s children and like this, it  goes. The duties as well as rights and happy as well as sorrow come under the  concern of marriage. The human interest for sharing these emotions raises the  prominence of marriage and family. In spite of limits and flaws, these sublime  institutions exist in society even after centuries.   
                                      TeenPol-sarth, the renowned Novelist, and Simoun De  Buvey, the feminist, had lived together for long without being married and they  described this relationship as an ‘intellectual friendship’. Such relations are  very common in western people. It is crystal clear that there is only short  life for even their legal relationships.   Every week, the husband finds other wife and vise versa in west as  changing of dresses. This culture isn’t allowed at any level, even though it is  possible biologically. The morality is needed for the existence of unblemished  relations between the social beings. When this morality is driven out, the laws  don’t have any prominence in the society.  
                                      The man and woman, who lived together without being  married, needn’t to think of divorce and family courts if they have any problem.  But, here are some questions:  who will  undertake the responsibility of feeding and protecting the children of such  parents? How can their linage be determined? There is no one to answer these  questions. If the legislative assembly is unable to enforce resisting laws  against the people mentioned, then what is the logic in implicating laws  against the prostitution taking place in hotels and entertaining centers only?!  The Judgment of Alahabad court raises many questions like this. The seeds of  such life style have been sown even in Kerala. Some recent TV interviews  between such unmarried couples indicate to this wicked culture. Thus, Kerala  seems to shift as an open society.   
                                    Individualism resulted by Globalization stands for  extreme pleasure in material life.  But  unconditioned pleasure of life is only a myth.   If any seed of cancer and AIDS affect one cell of the body that will be  enough for every pleasure to be broken.   Experiencing life through ups and downs is a must. All other things are  mere illusions. | 
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